Friday, February 22, 2013

Absolutely Own Anyone Or Anything She Loves

"She may be prone to resentful silks and silences if she feels ignored, and may resort to highly manipulative tactics to draw love and attention back to herself. This is not unusual for a young child, but Molly is liable to feel great conflict about her possessive feelings. She may be afraid that too much emotional intensity will drive others away, or that too strong an insistence on having her own way will result in them becoming angry. Thus there may be many complex feelings hidden under the surface which emerge only under great stress, when she feels really threatened by separation from loved ones. If [people] find intensity of emotion disturbing or distasteful, they may covertly if not openly denigrate Molly's powerful emotional and instinctual needs. This could deeply undermine her confidence, since she already carries her own fear that he is somehow bad because she feels so deeply and wants things so strongly."

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